Boy Lovers… people who love underage boys in the purest and most innocent manner, exist at a tumultous and confusing time.
We feel a burden from being misunderstood for decades, and our wish is to shine light on our true nature so we may live peacefully and be accepted within the world.
The truth about Boy Lovers is that we are a people of loyalty toward boys under the age of legal adulthood. The Boy Lovers who have written this publication care about the well-being of all little boys, preteens, and teens, and some of us would have little consideration for our own well-being and safety if one was in jeopardy. The popular notion that Boy Lovers are dangerous rapists is nothing but paranoia to instill unwarranted fear. However, this fear shall fade, just as it has toward homosexuality, and our truly calm, intelligent, and caring nature will be known.
There was a time when women, young girls, and yes even men were accused of witchcraft and had their liberties, and often their lives, taken from them, and with no more proof than an accusation or assumption from someone with an ax to grind. Modern Boy Lovers are facing a similar predicament, and we often suffer the same fate … and all because there are people who misunderstand and distrust us for our different manners, unusual beliefs, and our uncommon desire to worship the most beautiful creations who exist around us.
It takes no more than a single insinuation that someone has sexual interests in an underage boy for their life to be ripped apart by their neighbors, the media, law enforcement agencies, and public opinion … even before the person accused of some crime has an opportunity to prove their innocence. When did it become acceptable for people to destroy a person’s reputation, decency, and even any possibility for a normal future as a productive member of society … simply because a Boy Lover can see the allure, charm, and enchanting elegance in a little boy’s face or innocent smile?
Many thousands of people around the world have had their lives and their futures destroyed because someone else accused them of having inappropriate desires for a much younger human being … a person who the accused found not to be corrupted by greed, pride, or jealousy. And yet a vast majority of people who are decent law-abiding citizens of various countries live in fear of being discovered for having gentle and affectionate thoughts for someone who would not only crave the attention, but be at no more risk than any other adult the Boy Lover may know. Real love between a young boy and a Boy Lover is not a form of carnal lust; it is the same kind of love that can be felt by all people who have found the right person no matter their age.
It is beyond comprehension to imagine a gentle and decent Boy Lover as any more a threat to a boy under the age of eighteen than her father, or mother, or grandparent, or priest, or minister, or even a cherished teacher. Taking notice of a boy, his appearance, or the beauty in his personality is not indicative of lust or perversion. Most may not understand how we could see “beauty” in younger boys, but it’s unfair to harshly judge those who notice something beautiful in a child. By merely noticing younger boys we do no harm to them.
We are your neighbors, your friends, your relatives … people who don’t wish to remain close-minded nor intend physical harm on any segment of society nor would ever reciprocate if it was levied. We don’t even promote nor participate in acts of violence against those who wish to maim and kill us, but there are many who express vile and perverse ways to exact revenge on people who’ve never committed a single act of cruelty to anyone else. How bizarre that so called “monsters” choose to remain civil, decent, and prefer restraint over flamboyance when our detractors spew hateful rhetoric and incite horrible acts of violence against Boy Lovers.
And yet our society has in its grasp the potential to turn this perverse situation around and discuss the facts rather than the falsehoods. It’s almost as if people are afraid to know the truth, because their own lives might come under the same level of inspection, and their dark secrets might be dragged into the light.
The Beauty of Boys exists in spite of the lies and distortions being levied against a select set of individuals who adore boys under the legal age of adulthood. It is by sheer determination and guile this publication and web site continue to survive, in spite of many hundreds of attempts to silence both. What seems peculiar, and difficult to understand, is why narrow-minded and fearful people are dead-set against a differing opinion and innocent appreciation for someone when no laws have, are, or would be broken. It is paramount that we continue the fight to prove that we have no more intentions of abuse for any underage little boy or young man than the most decent and chaste human being on the planet.
Most people understand that love can take on more than a single form. The type and style of our love for underage boys isn’t meant to instill fear, hatred, or even suspicion. We adore them for their purity, innocence, playfulness, and willingness to express their affection without preconceived notions of monetary reward or material success. We’re also not afraid to play little boy’s games, help a preteen understand an important aspect of his life or the world around him, or enjoy a teen’s “different” style of music, because we Boy Lovers are still able to imagine what it’s like to think in such special and uncomplicated ways.
There are some vigilante groups and many people who promote violence against Boy Lovers, paint them as child molesters, and so called “monsters” who prey on children. As persuasive as these groups can be we ask that you take what they say with a grain of salt. Hear our side of the story, and you may learn a great deal that other sources won’t tell you.
We are not the monsters you have been misled to believe … we love little boys, preteens, teens, and young man under the age of eighteen … but have no desire to harm any.
Peruse our work, examine it closely, open your mind, and be as critical as you possibly can be about the messages being touted and the information being shared, for it is our greatest ambition to prove to those around us that we Boy Lovers are not evil, nor cruel, nor mindless monsters who wish to cause pain and suffering. We’re decent, law-abiding, and considerate members of society who can see beyond the veil of age discrimination into a world filled with innocent exploration, a desire for sharing, and an intense need for love without injury.
Enjoy our efforts and try to look beyond the stereotypes others have presumed and insisted upon. We offer our creation in the hope that our message can be shared and our existence accepted by all.
Originally from Alicelovers Magazine, Issue 2. It applies to us equally – I copied the text and replaced Girls with Boys.